Is Being Popular Really All That?

Is Being Popular Really All That?

We learn at an early age in school that there are several types of classmates. But when you really think about it, there are just two.

  • the popular kids
  • the loser/loner kids

Seriously, think about it. The jocks, the smart ones, the rich, the barbie dolls, and the “I wanna make out with him” are all encompassed into the “popular” kids. The others are the pot heads, the below C-grade kids, the not quite so cute or handsome kids, and those who don’t wear name brand clothing.

Am I right?

When it comes to the Presidential Election, we really never focused on the Popularity Vote.


Because we have an Electorial Process. It’s been this way for years! However, all of a sudden, part of the world wants us to change the entire voting system. They want the “Most Popular” to be President. But think about it. Is the most Popular what’s best for our Country?

Going back to my school days

The popular kids had it made, according to the loser kids (like myself). They had all the friends, the teachers wrapped around their fingers, the hottest boyfriends and girlfriends in the school, the hottest cars, coolest jobs, most fashionable clothing, and parents who let them do just about anything they wanted. They attended parties on the weekends and talked about their weekend adventures the following week of school.

The loser kids had teachers calling their homes because their grades were suffering, the skipped school or classes, they smoke in the bathroom and/or locker rooms, they hitchhiked to school because they missed the bus, and we all know that riding the bus as a junior or senior was so totally nerdy. These are some of the ones that worked the disgusting jobs, had acne, wore hand-me-down clothes and shoes and were basically just trying to graduate from school.

It’s kind of like the Breakfast Club

  • the princess
  • the jock
  • the nerd
  • the bad boy
  • the loner

Is Being Popular Really Worth All the Trouble?

Who really had it better?

The popular kids had so much peer pressure to “be” this certain image. They were constantly trying to upkeep an image so they wouldn’t fall from being popular. They generally had to “go with the flow” for fear of being outcast and ending up somewhere in between the popular and the loser kids. The pressure led many to had bouts of depression, turn to drugs or alcohol, and some even pregnant.

The loser kids didn’t have much of a reputation to protect so they pretty much walked to their own beat. They may have been weekly attendees to detention because they got caught doing something they should have been doing on school grounds or failing to do their homework, or maybe even because they had nothing better to do.

As adults, when we look back on this, which do you think actually had it better? One or the other or neither?

Celebrity children

Then we have those child actors/actresses who were popular and had so many expectations to live up to. How many child stars actually never dabbled in sex, drugs, alcohol, and being arrested?

They end up being “washed up” by their early adulthood! Are the pressures of being popular and staying popular really worth it?

Is Being Popular Really All That?

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8 thoughts on “Is Being Popular Really All That?”

    1. Hey Janice,

      Oh yes, social groups are a good thing. If we think about it, no matter if we were popular or “not quite so” popular, we still had our little groups that in itself, we were popular. I’m glad life is good for ya! 😉


    1. Hey Jared! Thank you. I really appreciate that. Being on the more “popular” end in my social circle now, I still pretend I’m not all that. I like keeping it simple. 🙂

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