Exercising Those Vocal Muscles Can Pump You Up! I can't believe it's taken me all these months to figure out what I already knew! I think the older we get, the less quick our minds thing. That and the fact, our memories aren't as good as they once were either. I found myself in a blogging funk recently and just can't believe that I already knew the answers on how to get out of it! Hell, I blog about it quite frequently! Exercise those Vocal Muscles!
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Exercising Those Vocal Muscles Can Pump You Up!

I can’t believe it’s taken me all these months to figure out what I already knew! I think the older we get, the less quick our minds thing. That and the fact, our memories aren’t as good as they once were either.

I found myself in a blogging funk recently and just can’t believe that I already knew the answers on how to get out of it! Hell, I blog about it quite frequently!

Exercise those Vocal Muscles!

Yes! Shout it Out! You’ll feel much better and you’ll do it more often!

 

So, my funk. Yeah, I talked about it recently. I just get so fed up with blogging rules! But it’s just not blogging.

Everyone thinks they are an expert!

You would think that we’ve all graduating from Harvard or something and have a gazillion initials after our names stating we’re a doctor in bullshit! It’s no wonder that people wonder around not knowing how to solve a problem or brainstorm with others.

It’s like Men

You know the ones. They buy something. Tear open the box and start putting it together. Only to find out later that they either have leftover parts OR the damn thing doesn’t work!

This is when it’s a Woman’s job to exercise those vocal muscles and tell that Man that he should have read the instructions.

But that’s too easy, right? I mean, why do companies put instructions into the box with their product?

It’s good to Speak Up

However, don’t be an ass about it. For the past several years, everyone and their mom have been speaking up and out but whatever they have a beef with. But the one thing that they are missing is couth. They speak out in violent and condescending ways and don’t care who they harm with their words or actions.

This isn’t cool. There is a right and a wrong way.

Those that are my age… ahem…midlife, know there are tactful ways of getting your point across without looking like a spoiled little toddler who lost their woobie!

I’m not telling you to shut up. Absolutely not! 

Remember this:  Two Wrongs don’t make it Right

You may not like the way that someone talks or what they believe in and exercise those vocal muscles by lashing out at that person in the same damn condescending way!

Exercising Those Vocal Muscles Can Pump You Up! I can't believe it's taken me all these months to figure out what I already knew! I think the older we get, the less quick our minds thing. That and the fact, our memories aren't as good as they once were either. I found myself in a blogging funk recently and just can't believe that I already knew the answers on how to get out of it! Hell, I blog about it quite frequently! Exercise those Vocal Muscles!

Do you know how childish that looks? Do you know that by taking the high road and being urbane, you are crawling under that person’s skin? They WANT you to lash out! They can relate to you better on that level!

Don’t stoop down to their level

Rise above!

This works in blogging too! Just about everything in life can be related to blogging in some way or another.

If you get in a blogging funk, write it out! Trust me! Writing is therapeutic, no matter how silly you may think it is. There is always someone out there who can relate to what you’re going through, and have probably been afraid to shout it out.

So, the next time you get in a bit of a fizzle, remember what I’ve said.

Waddya think? Is this something you practice or will try in the future? I just did two (2) days of Pumping Myself Up and am waiting on the crash and burn! 😉

Ok, sorry, I’m going to keep at it! How about you? How do you get out of the funk, whether it’s blogging, your job, a relationship, whatever is it? What do you do?

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